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Big Brother and online Hunger games.

I'm Really Over Tengaged..

19thApr 16, 2014 by LilSteph95
[sorry for long post]
It's full of drama, and all it does is piss me off lately.

As president of the #GreenTeam, I am trying my best to see both sides of the story. But I can't take a side, because that's wrong, so I let everyone be unstarred and now i'm in trouble. I'm the bad president. I talked to both parties, both swore and insulted each other so I took no sides and didn't accuse anyone of anything. My own members are now abusing me and accusing me of things.

Sorry but I have to express this.. I have try reasoning with them and talking to them personally but all i'm getting is abuse and accusations. I made a real effort to sort everything out but too many feelings were hurt last night and that's why my frat is broken. I changed the rules of the frat to be more equal and wrote the story of how Green Team was created.

LittleBrother123 and iamtrey, I honestly considered you two good friends on Tengaged. I invited you both to the frat and had you accepted. But now you've written bitchy blogs about your own friends, fratmates and even president, me.

It's perfectly fine to have an issue and speak to me about it but when you start insulting the people in your own frat, it's not okay. I know other members did not star you and did swear you. But you guys won't stop and keep making up drama. It's hard to look past it when you guys are constantly being negative about everything and everyone.

All this started because of a charity, a game that is not even competitive. I stated that I took DazzaBazza and Me2013 to the finals of my charity because I was closer to them and have known them for longer. I'm sorry about this, I had to vote my friends, everyone here was my friend. The same people are reaching finals in Death1droid's charity so now we are getting accused of a pre-made. It's up to the host who wants to stay and go, and it shouldn't matter who gets into finals as long as Death gets 1st, yes? We can't be selfish and ask for what we want, it's about him and him getting black. However I also said that if a charity was to happen again, it would be organised better and fairer so people in the frat would get different places.

We are also getting accused of being racist because we are all Australian. Yes it's easier to talk to someone on the same timeline, you run into them on tengaged more often. But I have nothing against people that live in other countries, in fact I find it more fascinating. I was talking to Trey just yesterday about American college and how me and Deathdroid wanted to attend, and today he accuses me of being racist. This is ridiculous.

Oh we are also getting accused of not staying loyal because of Starrr. We are planning to keep her (she was less active and gives Death the chance of winning) and votes have been done. However she left the frat today for one of her friend's (perfectly okay) and now we are getting accused of being unloyal when the votes have already been cast.

Today while i'm at school and out having lunch, Me2013 doesn't star Trey and Little Brother. I again get accused of not talking to her about it and doing anything about it. Hello i'm out in the real world. Give me a chance! Last night, the first thing I did when I got home was get on tengaged and Skype to sort out everyone's crap!

Little Brother + Trey, you may disappointed in the frat but i'm disappointed in you guys as people and friends. I tried to do what you want but all I get is crap in my face for it. I truly liked you guys as friends but you guys got really nasty with this and turned your back on me. I tried to be there for the both of you. Both parties were fighting each other so I could not take either side. Little Brother, you were more calm about your responses which, thanks I guess.. I didn't want to outcast you guys and keep you in the frat for as long as possible, hoping we could all work things out but..

I also get accused of not doing anything for the frat when I am trying my best, over a stupid game frat. I'm really over tengaged, all it does is piss me off these days.. People are mouthy, dramatic and untrusting. I've got these stupid frat issues, problems with my boyfriend in real life and the stress of uni. So I don't really want to come here anymore.

thanks to the people who have stuck by me..
#Rookies
[sorry for long post]

Comments

My frats better and we don't fight :)
Sent by neathery,Apr 16, 2014
i don't know ya, but i hear ya :) mail me anytime
Sent by k4r4k,Apr 16, 2014
OMG ! you guys fight among the frat mates ? I think you all should enroll in me2013's charity rookies and fight there lol :p by the way i hope it gets sorted out :) GL :)
Sent by rohanchaubey,Apr 16, 2014
Umm what charity rookies rohanchaubey?
I dont do charities cause I don't consider myself "relevant enough" and am just here to play with friends and have fun. I do however support my friends and that is exactly what I am doing.

I apologise to lilsteph95 for any part I have played in this whole drama and I back her as the #greenteam frat president in every decision that she makes. I value #friendsbeforefrat which is why this frat was started in the first place and lilsteph95 has a thankless and difficult job to try and keep everyone happy.

I am not going to deny that I am good friends with dazzabazza #ilybabe death1droid #mybff lilsteph95 #mygirl @hockey-dude #ilyman travisd13 #alwayshavemyback robulusjgreisonne #truefriend and I wont apologise for always having their best interests at heart every time I play.

My final thought:

"The only people I owe my loyalty to are those who never made me question theirs"
Sent by me2013,Apr 16, 2014
Please don't let this get you down steph. No matter what you do, it just isn't good enough to some people.
Sent by Starrr,Apr 16, 2014
hockey_dude at least get his name right
Sent by iamtrey,Apr 16, 2014
me2013 dont talk to me !
Sent by rohanchaubey,Apr 16, 2014
rohanchaubey - seriously but you can tag me in your posts? Make up your mind and stop tagging me then.
http://www.tengaged.com/blog/rohanchaubey/5345051/my-ad-went-air-check-ad-below-your-bets
Sent by me2013,Apr 16, 2014
and hockey_dude - I apologise for not tagging you properly - i make that mistake everytime......
Sent by me2013,Apr 16, 2014
me2013 because all couples where joining so i thought i should invite you as well :p
Sent by rohanchaubey,Apr 16, 2014
rohanchaubey but you don't want me to contact you in any way, so I don't get why you bothered and then rudely told me to stop talking to you - but it is ok for you to address me and talk about me? Please just leave me alone.
Sent by me2013,Apr 16, 2014
me2013 i think i am polite enough and always nice to all :) and its a humble request leave me alone :) you get what u give .... u give shit in return u get shit ..... u give love in return u get love !
Sent by rohanchaubey,Apr 16, 2014
rohanchaubey I am happy to leave you alone, I have not contacted you in any way - you are the one who mentioned me - twice - and then rudely stated "me2013 dont talk to me !" - so I guess then you think I shoud be rude back by your standards? (you get what u give .... u give shit in return u get shit ..... u give love in return u get love !)
Sent by me2013,Apr 16, 2014
me2013
you get what u give .... u give shit in return u get shit ..... u give love in return u get love !
dont talk to me :)
Sent by rohanchaubey,Apr 16, 2014
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Sent by me2013,Apr 16, 2014
Love you, girl.
Sent by Tailslover13,Apr 16, 2014
Love you StephCity. #RealClassAct
Sent by Hockey_Dude,Apr 16, 2014
LilSteph95

One of the nicest people I've met on this site. Makes me sad to see you feeling this way :(

Love you
Sent by robulusjgreisonne,Apr 16, 2014
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Sent by rohanchaubey,Apr 16, 2014

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