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Damn I'm Actually Kinda Conflicted...?

May 6, 2015 by Seal
So there's this girl I took out to a dinner/cocktail event earlier this year and she's been really into me since. Now I think she's awesome and hilarious and attractive, but I didn't really like her in that way for the past 2 months or however long it's been. But I was at her house tonight for a party and even though she was near beligerently drunk and I was relatively sober, I kinda started to feel like I dig her...?

I dunno what it was, but tonight I was kinda just like enjoying that she wanted to talk to me and like put her arm around me or whatever

Tengaged should be the last place I ask something like this, but what should I do? Should I pursue even though I dunno if I'm actually into her or not? Maybe I just enjoy the attention and I'm really just a dick deep down inside?

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I actually had the same thing. But she was abroad this past semester and just got back. I don't think I really like her, but she is/was so into me (she has a boyfriend now) that I think I liked her because she was so into me and not that I actually was into her.
Sent by brosky17,May 6, 2015
Do you get butterflies?
Sent by 2Beastly,May 6, 2015
brosky17 It's weird cause she's totally my type and everyone is like "dude she's really hot" or whatever, but I just haven't felt it. She's a little much at times, but I honestly haven't really gotten to know her much sober? Maybe I should give it a chance hahaha
Sent by Seal,May 6, 2015
2beastly I haven't gotten butterflies since high school hahaha. It sucks, I used to love that shit
Sent by Seal,May 6, 2015
Well usually you have to spend a lot of time with someone before you know if you're into them :p
Sent by 2Beastly,May 6, 2015
seal you give me butterflies no lie
Sent by panda13,May 6, 2015
Seal her sorority sisters and my brothers would always try and tell me that exact same thing. I think the fact that she was too much at times turned me off before she left for the semester. Once she got back though, I saw her and we talked and I just kept thinking, "damn, how did you not just give this one a try?" And giving it a try can't hurt too much... right? haha
Sent by brosky17,May 6, 2015
Lol you haven't really talked to her much sober? Haha well hmm you should probably just pursue because when you get up into something that's where you'll ultimately feel the feelings at. Plus if you don't actually like her while in the relationship if you pursue it she sounds like a fast one get some punani and head out of it IDK xD.
Sent by Rain848,May 6, 2015
rain848 I should clarify that it's her sobriety I was referring to, not mine haha. I can't recall a time speaking to her when I was drunk, but she likes to have a good time hahaha
Sent by Seal,May 6, 2015
Talk to her when she is sober see how it feels if she makes you feel all giddy then you probably like her a tad bit then talk to her when your drunk and she is then you'll both have a good time or a bad one depending on what type of drunkie you are haha
Sent by Rain848,May 6, 2015
Honestly, do you want to start something now that it's almost summer? If you do, that's fine. I personally would probably wait until after summer though (unless you guys live close enough for it to work out).
Sent by maxiphone27,May 6, 2015

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