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Rule Addition/Disability Shaming

1stApr 21, 2015 by T_ModTEMP
We are making this blog to let you all know of a rule that is going to be enforced more harshly following this blog. We would like to direct you to our profile, where we have made this addition. You can find it under "General Harassment" on our profile:

5A. Disability Shaming/Harassing users while personally attacking them about disabilities - This is one of the newer rules of Tengaged. This will be something that is taken seriously, and bans will be handed out because of it. Using the "R" word is not bannable, but disability shaming and going out of your way to attack somebody, telling them they have certain disabilities is now something that is considered a bannable offense and falls under general harassment of users. Any offenses will be taken seriously and bans will be handed out based off the users past, how many bans they have received, and the severity of the comments.

We believe this is a huge issue here on Tengaged. Now, it's going to be difficult to judge what is really disability shaming, and since this falls under general harassment, not everything will be bannable. It will depend on the severity, but if you genuinely feel like a comment is offensive and should not be on Tengaged, please let us know, and we will do our best to make sure that the comments do not come back up, as long as they are reasonable.

Going forward, disability shaming will be a minimum 2 day ban and 7 day black list. (if it is blogged) If a user has many past bans (does not matter what sort of bans they are), longer bans will be handed out aswell as longer blacklists.

We do not want to look for a reason to ban the users of Tengaged, but this issue has come to our attention a lot over the past little while. Any chances on the Tengaged_Moderation account will be made once I receive access to this.

If you have any questions or concerns, please post on this blog or send us a mail.

Thank you,

T_ModTEMP

Comments

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Sent by Booyahhayoob,Apr 21, 2015
FIRST NOT
Sent by CheapCheep,Apr 21, 2015
Ok lol
Sent by Shonaynay,Apr 21, 2015
Welp
Sent by BBlover96,Apr 21, 2015
Hmm...
Sent by DanielKennedy111,Apr 21, 2015
Yao.
Sent by Absol,Apr 21, 2015
:) +11
Sent by MelihV,Apr 21, 2015
Retard, why couldnt you just say it if its not bannable
Sent by Judd_lover101,Apr 21, 2015
Good
Sent by Yaxha,Apr 21, 2015
Well if the "n" word is bannable for disrespecting a race so should being disrespectufl to mental disabilities

Or we should just stop being retarded and not ban people for dumb shit
Sent by ak73,Apr 21, 2015
We're talking about extreme cases in this blog. People who are harassed and being told they have different mental disabilities (even if they don't) is not okay. Hence why this rule is being put in place. I'm not looking for a reason to ban people. Harassment on Tengaged shouldn't exist if everybody were just here to enjoy the website. ak73
Sent by T_ModTEMP,Apr 21, 2015
ak73 what may be 'dumb shit' to you is not to people who live with or have family members with disabilities. I'm pretty sure you can go through your tengaged life without laughing at disabilities
Sent by sweetiepiesweetie,Apr 21, 2015
Ok
Sent by JustMe,Apr 21, 2015
i approve. its so annoying when people are like "you have (insert disability)" like shut the fuck up and come up with something original fucker
Sent by Piddu,Apr 21, 2015
first of all i haven't ever said anything (that I can remember) that was intended to "laugh at someone with a disability"
secondly what I meant was that ANYONE should be allowed to express their opinion regardless of how disrespectful or dumb or whatever it may seem.. the only way to educate people is to let them express their opinion and try to reason and show them why they may be wrong
there's no point in teaching people not to say racist/stereotypical/disrespectful ect things but rather we should try to teach them why it's wrong
sweetiepiesweetie
Sent by ak73,Apr 21, 2015
Thank god we've needed this rule!
Sent by Rocker917,Apr 21, 2015
littlemix
Sent by MelloJello,Apr 21, 2015
so just to clarify, I cannot call Lockie a rascal anymore?
Sent by JamesM,Apr 21, 2015
are you able to ban? lol
Sent by SurvivoroftheTocans,Apr 21, 2015
I read this really good article once that had nothing to do with mental disorders or anything but he used the word 'retarded' as it's dictionary definition and it sounded so good I was very impressed as it was one of the first times I had heard the word used in it's proper/original way. I just wanted to share. :)
Sent by schmooboy,Apr 21, 2015
@Thanksgiving
Sent by ItsAlexia,Apr 21, 2015
thank you, but I really think the word "retarded" to insult someone should be bannable.
Sent by ohheydudeski,Apr 21, 2015
Ok but no1 uses Retard anymore. Its all about Autism these days.
Sent by devinwithparasites,Apr 21, 2015
Is @shroomat banned yet
Sent by JonMcGillis,Apr 21, 2015
People are too sensitive
Sent by sjsoccer88,Apr 21, 2015
what if you call someone actually autistic autistic?
Sent by SurvivorFreak13,Apr 21, 2015
I am so happy to see this...  I get tired of seeing people harassed for their disabilities or people saying they have a disability...  People need to realize it's not something people can help and nobody should be harassed for it...  Now that i've just started to rant because it makes me sick, i'll just say good... I am glad we have a new mod!
Sent by Jenna2010,Apr 21, 2015
This is absolutely amazing! The way I'm understanding it is if you just throw the word out there (which you shouldn't in the first place it's fine, but going out of your way to attack someone will result in a punishment?

If that's what it is, I think it's great.
Sent by brosky17,Apr 21, 2015
T_ModTEMP the R word SHOULD be bannable, like it USED to be. There is absolutely no context which it should be allowed and it is silly that it is now allowed, especially since it's almost used exclusively on tengaged as an insult. Please reconsider and make it a bannable offense, especially given this new disability rule.
Sent by BlueBarracuda,Apr 21, 2015
Thank u very much t_modtemp. I saw a blog once about people calling autistic people animals and it seriously offended me because my older brother has autism.
Sent by Matt64,Apr 21, 2015
if this is gonna be a rule and i along with us other blacks cant use the n word, then at least make retard bannable tbh.
Sent by BrendaMeeks,Apr 21, 2015
if telling someone they have disabilities is gonna be bannable, then the R word as an insult should be bannable as well. #pleasebeconsistent
Sent by bunnycat,Apr 22, 2015
So you can call other people 'retarded' but can you call other people 'autistic' as well or no? Just so i know what to report :)
Sent by Etienne,Apr 22, 2015
Thank you!
Sent by JGoodies,Apr 22, 2015
What about the issue brought up in the comments of SweetiePieSweetie's blog?
Someone possibly faking a disability.
If someone claims they're autistic, then someone calls them autistic, but then they send the report skipping the part where they said they said they autistic, from the looks of things, you judge it by the offender's history rather than the truth, T_ModTemp.
Shouldn't counter reports be a thing?
A chance to prove your innocence?
Sent by Yoshitomi,Apr 22, 2015
calling it disability shaming is a bit of an oxy-moron no pun intended
Sent by throwaway,Apr 22, 2015
What is considered a disability? Being mentally ill? Being overweight? Being dyslexic? Having ADHD? Because other than being it seems you just imply mentally challenged to the word disability. Anything is considered a disability. So if someone calls me fat when my parents genetically overweight and I inherited their genes, would I be able to come to you if I get harassed?
Like one of the comments up above, this seems to be an oxymoron ( throwaway). If applying this rule, then you might as well just cut out the word disability and just take in offense to harassment in general. Which according to online data I collected throughout my months of studying online interactions for my college profession, sociology, it is inevitable to stop harassment if banning them and them creating a new account to continue the harassment.
Specifying these rules will help clarify a better understanding. I mean if someone is mentally challenged, then how did that person create the account? Who is supervising them? Who is controlling their internet time to prevent such things of harassment?
Just my thoughts. I don't really agree with these rules since majority of the time we never do see rules like this fall through. Because you need evidence to make a ban, and who are you to judge whether it is worthy of being a harassment when you don't know if the person provoked him or her to name calling?
Sent by carleebear,Apr 22, 2015
*follow through
Sent by carleebear,Apr 22, 2015
Omg. I can't believe ppl need rules to treat each other with decency and kindness. We don't have a fuck ing chance. Gg humanity
Sent by Duke,Apr 22, 2015
Attacking someone about one's personal life should be punished just as severly.
Sent by CharlieBibi,Apr 22, 2015
T_ModTEMP Which is that R word and can we please ban the C*nt?
Sent by rohanchaubey,Apr 22, 2015
ok then can we go back and look at this blog. she even has her blog picture a downs child crying..

  http://www.tengaged.com/blog/Delete2544/6259030/attacking-intellegance-makes-no-sence
Sent by CalebJustLeft,Apr 22, 2015

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