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I am so lonely IRL :(

1stMay 6, 2016 by Vanili
It's sad to say.. but I barely have any IRL friends. I used to have a lot of them.. but half of them were fake bitches and the other half we drifted apart. It's so hard to meet new friends these days. And I don't talk with my 2 older sisters anymore.. the only family member that really cares about me and that really loves me is my mom. I hate life sometimes :(

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I'm in an early grad program and I feel like I've lost all my old friends too. I don't really hang out with many people anymore either. That's why I'm on tengaged so much again. I basically only hang out with my girlfriend, she keeps me happy :)
Sent by KrisStory,May 6, 2016
:/
Sent by Survivor8,May 6, 2016
things always get better :*
Sent by dexterie,May 6, 2016
You seem so nice though! You will get some new friends :)
Sent by M2thamax,May 6, 2016
This is unfortunate. People are jealous of you.
Sent by Striky,May 6, 2016
aw im having a rough day today too :(
Sent by evilgenious448,May 6, 2016
same
Sent by Downeaster,May 6, 2016
Same :(
Sent by Booyahhayoob,May 6, 2016
Aw :( I feel kinda the same
Sent by rosemulet,May 6, 2016
wtf every1 wants 2 be friends w you!!
Sent by Teddybear,May 6, 2016
I'm a message a way anytime you want someone to talk to. :)
Sent by Forest_Knight,May 6, 2016
Nowadays, it's hard to find trustworthy friends. :/

When do you find them, it makes up for that loneliness. < 3

Just remember, you are never alone in the world. :)

There are plenty of people whom are on the same boat.
Sent by KizzXxX08,May 6, 2016
Vanili you seem like you are have a lot of friends!
Sent by Lazeric,May 6, 2016
of course we love you who wouldnt?
Sent by honeybunch1,May 6, 2016
I've learned it is just life. Growing up in school you are surrounded by family,friends,classmates, etc. every day of your life. You are forced to be around these people. But since I've been on my own in college a little with freedom to do whatever most of the time, I've learned it can be lonely. I quickly learned that it was going to be impossible to keep up with everyone I wanted and I'd try my best to keep up even though it sucks seeing some old friends move along and not be there with them. You'll eventually meet new friends and people wherever life takes you as long as you try. Try as in the sense of not repeating a mundane schedule of going to work and coming straight back to your house and repeating. But maybe try going out with coworkers or going to a local bar or even getting involved in the community in some program. They may not be ideal things to do but they could spark something else. Idk now I'm just rambling but I just wanted to let you know I get 100% where you are coming from and it sucks but hang in there because it will get better :)
Sent by sjsoccer88,May 6, 2016
Quality over Quantity.
Takes just one amazing friend for me to be content in life.
Sent by FighterMan,May 6, 2016
^
Sent by MickyBoomy9,May 6, 2016
^
Sent by TheBlackDog,May 7, 2016
we can be besties
Sent by Spicoli,May 7, 2016
This is something which happened to me while I was at college. Pretty much the same thing. I was very alone, I had acquaintances but I had no actual friends. And I figured I would always be alone. Then a few things happened. One was me sitting alone at lunch and someone spotted me and invited me to their group. And the other thing was bumping into my childhood friend who I had drifted away from as he was randomly walking down the street; Catch_a_falling_star.
I've drifted from that group I started to regularly eat lunch with in college but when I went to University, I met some friends who are pretty much friends for life. We always chat even though we only see each other like twice a year.
So I would say to you, Vanili, that you may feel alone now and you've probably felt lonely for a long time but you never know, your best friend could be yet to appear in your life. :)
Sent by Yoshitomi,May 7, 2016
What? I'm so shocked. You are one of the most genuine ans sweetest people I ever met. If no one sees that you don't need them. Don't ever change who you are because you are simply amazing and I love you vanili
Sent by jsylvia76,May 7, 2016
Babe you can always talk to me < 3 Vanili

It's better to have fewer friends who truly care than lots that don't give a shit. Trust me x
Sent by LoveLife,May 7, 2016
aw i know how you feel :/ i can be your friend if you want to? Quality over Quantity Vanili
Sent by Eva1,May 7, 2016
I feel your pain. I moved across the country to be with my boyfriend and other than him and his family I see like no one..
Sent by livelovelaugh1989,May 7, 2016
You are not alone Vanili, I am exactly the same.

But do you now what....there is a difference between being ALONE and being LONELY. You may find you're pretty much alone besides your mum, but if you have ditched fake friends, you haven't lost anything. Sometimes one feels lonelier around fake friends than when one is actually alone. :)
Sent by 75937563748,May 7, 2016
I am also with sjsoccer88 - after work people always seem to be doing something and ask if I want to come along. I never feel like it because I'm tired or don't know them, but that is so stupid. I should get to know them and motivate myself to find friends.

Its the same thing with any kind of relationship. You can't go out looking, but you have got to be physically in proximity to people to make friends. :)

Cool words Yoshitomi! I had the same situation, haha. And it is important to always be positive and believe the best is yet to come. Wake up feeling like something amazing could happen anytime.
Sent by 75937563748,May 7, 2016
Maybe try taking a chance and going out? Or try reconnecting with your old friends, if you can!
Sent by nmh95,May 7, 2016
Is this blog serious?
Sent by Meyaar,May 7, 2016
http://www.tengaged.com/blog/Kyle12212/7356381/survivor-group-game-challenge
Please comment on this guys
Sent by Kyle12212,May 7, 2016
We're always here for you :)
Sent by BigDude,May 7, 2016
I love u Vanili
Sent by eric_136,May 7, 2016
Just came back home from college and had to say goodbye to so many amazing friends there. It's not hard for me to make friends but right now I'm in a friend deficit and feel this blog
Sent by AlaskanFiredragon,May 7, 2016
dw hun I'm in the exact same boat!! to be honest I consider the people I talk to on skype from tengaged everyday my best friends lmao
Sent by donaam,May 7, 2016
THE FEELS. :(
Sent by TotalDramaLover1234,May 7, 2016
dont worry i feel the  same
Sent by survivingreality,May 7, 2016
I can understand you so well... :'(
Sent by FedeBenna,May 7, 2016
What sjsoccer88 said!

It was certainly different for me to leave all of my friends for college, so I get where you are coming from. Try pushing yourself a little out of your comfort zone and you truly never know what can happen! I made a couple awesome relationships by doing so this year! Stay positive. :)
Sent by MikeRORO,May 7, 2016

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