but i'm healthy and active. so why are other people so negative and judgemental toward "fat" people??
like because i have some love handles means i don't take care of myself? it must mean i never shower and my typical exercise is getting up to get more chips from the kitchen? like no, wtf....
i am beautiful. everyone is beautiful in their own way and i will be damned if you say someone isn't just because they aren't thin.
i literally had someone tell me they'd date me if i lost weight. my reply was "well i'd date you if you were a gentleman" ^_^
Unfortunately while you don't have to date that person you described, they have a right to prefer a certain appearance too. It's just like how people would prefer to date someone of the same race as them or same gender. It doesn't make them racist or sexist, it just is their preference.
That being said I know you're nice and will totally find someone who is attracted to you anyways!!!
I hear you aquamarine. But this was not said in a polite way nor were the comments that followed. It was weird random and i definitely feel like he showed how ugly he could be. You may be attracted to a certain type, but you cant make a decision just based on looks and then continue insulting them. People need manners
aquamarine, like for example he even said only BLACK MEN would be attracted to me. it was repulsive. and no, not all people have to appreciate a curvy girl but don't insult her!
LMAO literally fat people are so targeted and it's so sad. Like fat people are obviously aware of their weight and stupid people literally just use that as ammo to hurt them??? Because they know society is trying to wipe them out lmao. But 100% straight guys are the worst. Literally don't ever get your hopes up for them. Having low expectations makes things easier and it honestly helps you wade out the losers. ALSO DATING SOMEONE WHO WANTS YOU JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE BIGGER IS SO BAD THEY ARE THE WORST REALLY
Being fat doesn't stop me. I still run at least 7-8 miles a week, play basketball and hit the weight room. During the summer I even played at least 15 games of soccer! lol Just do what you do.
xxthornwyz exactly! He not only insulted my appearance but made a racist comment. And i completely agree about your judging statement, thats the point of my blog. Im the least judgemental person you could meet
That being said I know you're nice and will totally find someone who is attracted to you anyways!!!