can my existence NOT be discourse on this hellsite, i literally came out two days ago give me a fucking break. “but your avi is female” I CAME OUT. TWO DAYS AGO. at least give me some fucking time christ. the only reason i even realized i was non-binary was because the harassment affected me so much i realized i could be non-binary.
i get zero respect on this website for someone who’s nice and respectful towards everyone (of course unless im provoked). i’ve done absolutely fucking nothing to deserve this and im over it.
thank you to those that understand im a 16 y/o kid grappling with their identity. and to those who don’t, i hope you can at least try to understand others a bit better after this. thanks.
you're not alone in this feeling. trans and nonbinary people are constantly forced to explain, justify, and argue their existence and it is exhausting. just know - there are people who support you fully and are so proud of you for sticking up for yourself and being bold about your identity.
it sucks to be tokenized like you are right now and turned in to a talking point, and if you wanna rant about how annoying it is or just need a place to write your feelings, my mails are open
agree with austin
i don’t think data was malicious, but they def could have worded what they said better.
i see this discourse often on here, don’t worry it’s not all about you, there are plenty of queer people on here with you as well as many people who are uneducated, it’s unfortunately part of life, especially in online circles like this where people can hide behind screens.
i work as a mental health counselor (not kidding) and i work with a lot of queer people (as i am one myself) and am willing to talk if you need.