utsumi gave me my first ever tengaged design on #maryland and we started to talk and both found out we lived in Michigan, we added each other on snap and for a while, everything was platonic. things started to go downhill as I would tell him about having seen older guys off dating apps (don't do it this if your underage) and would ask about details about it and would always ask if I was into hairy guys/bears. He never asked for nudes or anything to after I turned over 18 but he's still a creep
