So, Houston and I have 2 other roommates as well. One is Houston's buddy from high school, and the other is a random guy.
Yesterday we tried a bunch of times to make him feel comfortable because he really only knew 1 person who went here (who was a frat boy), but he just seemed a little bit timid...
Us 3 stayed up till like, 2AM and hanging out and we just did not know where he was the entire day, even in the group chat we have on texts he didn't answer so we were getting really worried.
He got back at around 3 and was drunk, which is something that us 3 really don't do (I am fine with drinking but Houston and his buddy is really against it), and he went straight to bed... And then throughout the night he was throwing up and I felt bad, but not really.
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Do we just let him do his thing if that's what he wants, or should we still try to keep including him in things? Today we are gonna check out where all of our classes are since it is a huge campus and we want to know where to go, and we wanted to include him in it because again, HE DOESN'T KNOW ANYONE EXCEPT THIS ONE GUY.
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Leave him.
Unless you want to become a drunk mess like him.
When I was with random people for my freshman year I had three roommates and I was the guy that was left out of the group. And to be honest, I really didn't care. If he's not making any effort to connect with you then he's probably not expecting or asking you to do the same. So probs just don't worry about him, but be friendly with him when he's around. Maybe he'll start interacting with you after a little while
JosephinaAlexis, Again I don't mind drinking it's just not my thing 24/7. Tengaged_Moderation, Admir - Frat parties are the reason. you just get drunk for no reason most of the time. FighterMan - I just don't want him to think I am making him feel he is making a bad decision. #NoHate
Patrick319 - That's what I was going to do. EddieDee - That's what I figured, I just didn't want him to feel excluded.
leave him to do his own thing but there is no harm to ask every now and again if he fancies hanging out with you guys?:) maybe he'll become more social with you guys as term goes oon
Well he is though lol, danielkennedy111
Getting THAT drunk especially in the future when its exam season will only be bad for the 4 of you.
Might as well let him know now before its too late.
DanielKennedy111 it's college. The school year hasn't started . Why would u not party ? (Unless ur not into drinking, but don't ruin his fun). But u can still try and include him in stuff it's his choice though
Unless you want to become a drunk mess like him.