I have this friend in Australia. He's 21 too, pretty hot. We drank Saturday night. He has a girlfriend. In general terms, he told me he would be down for a three-sum with another guy. His girlfriend is a vegetarian hipster liberal feminist, so pretty sure she is open minded as well. He told me he once made out with a guy when he was really drunk, but didn't remember it and just seemed open to the idea.
I really want to have a 3sum with them. They've been together 5 months and met on tinder lmao. I don't know him TOO well. We had a class together before he dropped it & he invited me to his party a couple months ago. He even stood up for my at the party when I called a racist chick out. But he told me when he was 19 or 20 he paid for his gf to have an abortion and even his gf doesn't know that. I told him I wanted to go to the Blue Mountains and he was like his gf wanted to as well, so he called her and was like we could go tomorrow (the three of us). But she didn't answer and granted: he was drunk as was I.
I go to Melbourne tomorrow until late Friday night. I go back to America Sunday. It's Monday 2PM at the moment. So if anything: I could try for something Saturday even though packing should be done. How would you even handle this situation? I was going to message him in a few days to see if he would still be keen to go to the mountains this weekend & then he could drop me off at the airport in Sydney. Am I crazy though? I mean it's not like I'll ever see him again if this goes wrong, but I don't want to just message him and be like "I want to fuck you and your gf"