It's very disturbing when you realise how real people like Martha are and how easily you can run into them. A few years back I met this guy on Tinder who seemed really nice and had a decent job for someone our age. Bout a day into our convo he told me he his ex had a restraining order on him so I ghosted him. The next day I saw he'd messaged me like 10+ times asking why I wasn't responding. I ended up blocking him but he found my insta somehow and tried messaging me on there, luckily my acc was private.
He still tries to match with me on Hinge till this day. I know it's not the wildest stalker case out there but it was enough to shook my 19 year old ass.