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Big Brother and online Hunger games.

I know I'm fat...

1stJun 15, 2012 by BlueStar
*** READ IT ALL PLEASE, THE POINT OF THE BLOG ISN'T TO GET COMPLIMENTS ITS TO RAISE THE ISSUE OF PERSONAL ATTACKS***
I don't understand why people on here feel the need to tell me that, or insult me about it... or anyone else for that matter.
I'm constantly seeing the same old shit used every day.. FAT... UGLY... NO LIFE... blah blah blah..

Do you not think I look in the mirror and judge myself day in and day out? I'll be the first person to say I'm not attractive, if someone calls me beautiful I'd tell them I'm not, I have 0 confidence in my body and my looks..
But I can guarantee you that anything said on here, or anywhere else by mindless people will never ever be as harsh to me as I am to myself, so you really should quit trying to hurt me, or anyone else with your superficial  insults.

I've been called fat all my life, it's really just become one of those things that I've learnt to deal with and it doesn't bother me cause I'm my own worst critic. I changed my diet drastically 6 weeks ago and I've lost a stone so far.. I feel so much better and my confidence is growing but I'm gonna carry on until I am happy with how I look... And I can guarantee that when I get there, I'll still get called fat cause it's so easy to use that in an argument isn't it? Rather than actually give a respectable intelligent response to a disagreement!

This isn't just about me, far from it... I've seen countless examples of this used on here and it really disgusts me just how evil some people can be.. Posting other peoples pictures to mock them when generally the people who do this are too damm insecure to even show their own photo!

It's so easy for some trolls on here to criticise others and act like they know so much about other peoples lives and try and use it against them to hurt someones feelings.. It's pathetic. Online or not, the person behind that avatar is a human being, and I don't think anyone on this website is perfect enough to bully another aspect of someone else's life.

Every single person in the collage is beautiful in different ways... the ugly people are the ones who feel the need to rip the thing apart and say who is hot and who isn't.

We all spend a lot of time on here... who are any of us to say that someone else has "no life" or their life isn't as good as our own just cause it's different?

Quit judging people for all the wrong reasons, cause that fat and ugly person with no life could turn out to be your best friend!

#EndRant

Comments

N0 U R N0T F@T U R BEAUTFIL!!!!
Sent by Yaxha,Jun 15, 2012
N0 U R N0T F@T U R BEAUTFIL!!!!
Sent by Deceased,Jun 15, 2012
#fatpride
Sent by TheGoodMan,Jun 15, 2012
N0 U R N0T F@T U R BEAUTFIL!!!!
Sent by Benronfficial76,Jun 15, 2012
you are beautiful < 3
Sent by dansterdan,Jun 15, 2012
is it okay to mention your roots were showing in the collage picture?
Sent by ohgod,Jun 15, 2012
You're beautiful whether you were 600 pounds or 120 :*
Sent by Sebbers,Jun 15, 2012
also name names
Sent by ohgod,Jun 15, 2012
you're beautiful kez regardless of what anyone says to you or about you

Ik this blog isn't about you but i wanted to tell you that
Sent by o_Elle_o,Jun 15, 2012
kez < 3 i think you're beautiful ^.^
Sent by lemonface,Jun 15, 2012
i didn't read it all cuz its too long so ill read it later maybe but YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!
Sent by Etienne,Jun 15, 2012
You are one of the most beautiful women I know.
Sent by Sass21,Jun 15, 2012
fk the haters
even tho you hate me. #smh
Sent by MikeRORO,Jun 15, 2012
I'll pray for your foot.
Sent by pablito,Jun 15, 2012
I think all of us have something to offer, and by trying to bring each other down, we do nothing but do more harm than good to the community as a whole. Loves you, ya boob!

..s2..
Sent by rdesch1,Jun 15, 2012
I agree with what you are saying. It is like when people resort back to using me living in Alabama or saying "who are you" when responding to an argument to me. I am like how idiotic you are that you can't even respond intelligently. And to be honest your face is pretty. So it isn't like you are ugly. And believe me when I say this, compared to people in Alabama, you are nothing close to fat. We are 2nd in the whole United States in obesity. So you are good :)
Don't worry what others say.

bluestar
Sent by sjsoccer88,Jun 15, 2012
Being 100% honest, you're really not that bad at all
Sent by Pogo11,Jun 15, 2012
i thought you were 3rd steve? last time i checked LA and MS kept battling it out for 1st! LOL

#SouthernComfort
Sent by rdesch1,Jun 15, 2012
bravo!
Sent by PrincessTeePee,Jun 15, 2012
< 3
Sent by NotAfraid,Jun 15, 2012
"http://www.tengaged.com/blog/Nikutoku/2972346/kez" bluestar
Sent by Nikutoku,Jun 15, 2012
♥ Kez
Sent by realitynerd,Jun 15, 2012
You are beautiful Kez. :*

This place is just full of scum bags.
Sent by The_Domany,Jun 15, 2012
I agree with The_Domany ... you are beautiful
Sent by Iceyblue52,Jun 15, 2012
u arent fat so dont listen to what others have to say
Sent by BlueLagoon506,Jun 15, 2012
I think you are beautiful bluestar :)
Sent by STOKES2009,Jun 15, 2012
I'm gonna get hate from this comment:

Yes, everyone is beautiful in their own way. But there are things that can be changed to make his or herself more healthy. Health is the most important thing to me, so when i see someone overweight or "fat" i don't see ugliness, but unhealthiness.

Like you, Bluestar, are changing your diet and changing your lifestyle in order to become healthy, which i appreciate and am being you in this journey all the way.

But remember, it's not something you should be doing for outer beauty. but the change needs to come from the inside out.
Sent by qwert2,Jun 15, 2012
Keep yo head up girl you are beautiful!
Sent by Zabrina,Jun 15, 2012
This past week I've been blogging a lot about my uneasiness with users making fun of people's appearances. It's truly a shame seeing so many people sinking to that level! It really needs to stop.
Sent by WillyEx,Jun 15, 2012
preach
Sent by dorkishbarbi,Jun 15, 2012
and i really dont care what gayboys on the internet say about me LOL, im not self conscious i really dont care, so try to think of some original insults that will actually put me in my place, thanks!!!
Sent by BengalBoy,Jun 15, 2012
P.S You're actually pretty attractive imo, specially now with the blonde hair.
Sent by WillyEx,Jun 15, 2012
radiohead
Sent by BengalBoy,Jun 15, 2012
BY THE WAY,

I find it amusing seeing how some people are being completely FAKE. Some of the people who laughed with Jubbzy or encouraged him are here ALSO agreeing with Kez. If you know it's wrong to make fun of someone's weight, why laugh and encourage it when Jubbzy does it? Jubbzy was making fun of people's appearances(their weight in general)
Sent by WillyEx,Jun 15, 2012
your qute hoe your qute werk it sista
Sent by wavykidq,Jun 15, 2012
you are NOT fact.
Sent by hai_,Jun 15, 2012
I loved this blog < 33
I thought you looked gorgeous in your collage picture @Bluestsr
Sent by MintCokeify,Jun 15, 2012
* Bluestar
Sent by MintCokeify,Jun 15, 2012
aw ily< 33
Sent by gematria,Jun 15, 2012
+12
Some people are so shallow.
I had an experience with one person making fun of collage photos the other day and
-They didn't even submit a collage picture
-When I confronted them they backtracked and called it a "joke"
It isn't a joke, people can be hurt by things like that and this stupid bullying needs to stop.
Sent by taylor112399,Jun 15, 2012
#luvyou
Sent by snels66,Jun 15, 2012
I agree with you 100%. i get teased about my looks and weight too.. Its quite annoying when i did nothing to them in the first place.
Sent by ZIMY,Jun 15, 2012
and you make this blog why??? when me and alot of other think highly of you, don't worry about these other folks, they come out everytime there is a collage
Sent by DCSooner,Jun 15, 2012
plussed
Sent by SuperFreak,Jun 15, 2012
ok I just read the very top so disregard my first comment but for real tho, people should worry bout themselves sometimes, stop worrying about others so much. Simple concept...
Sent by DCSooner,Jun 15, 2012
You are fucking human and I know that PERSONALLY. I DON'T give a fuck what you look like cuz you...as a human being...are AMAZING.  You know what...keep being human and tell those other stupid fuckers to go lick skyy's bleeding vagina if they really think they're cool for judging.
Sent by andychuck08,Jun 16, 2012
ilysm get on skype !! :*
Sent by dools,Jun 16, 2012
You are beautiful!:) Don't worry about the outside, worry about the inside:D
Sent by KatnissEverdeen,Jun 16, 2012
You are a beautiful woman with a very successful job. Let the haters hate babe!
Sent by DanielAllen,Jun 16, 2012
When I saw the collage, you stood out as beautiful to me tbh @BluStar
Sent by EEstrada17,Jun 16, 2012
BlueStar
Sent by EEstrada17,Jun 16, 2012
Love you kez your such a good person ♥
Sent by SexyBanana,Jun 16, 2012
Well said!!!
Sent by trishytrash,Jun 16, 2012
if i remember correctly.. u and a few other added me to a group and judged me.. not my looks but other things. so maybe u shouldnt let karma get ya. but ur pretty people are just jelous.
Sent by carlab1,Jun 16, 2012
this is probably my most fave blog ive ever read on tengaged in my 4 years of being on the site... love you Kez! < 3

IMO: you're amazing! :)
Sent by steviecamille,Jun 16, 2012
+12 love this blog tbh
Sent by turney1805,Jun 16, 2012
True :) and aw u aren't
Sent by egaga911,Jun 16, 2012
People are such cunts..
You're actually really pretty[:
#FuckTheirThoughts
Sent by torimarie,Jun 16, 2012
Honestly, i dont think youre fat atall.. in your collage picture you looked a healthy weight and you looked really pretty

Dont let them get to you :]
Sent by Jenii_Valenta,Jun 16, 2012
BlueStar. Kez, I've told this to Yoshitomi, I've told this to Nikkayy, and now you'll be the 3rd Tengager of hundreds of girls I'll tell this to. Beauty by me doesn't come from weight OR looks, it comes from who you are, your personality, and your inner you. Being a straight male and saying this... don't know how much it helps, but you ARE beautiful, no matter what you think!
Sent by yswimmer96,Jun 16, 2012
This is wonderful! :)

I do the exact thing when looking in the mirror. But you are right everyone is beautiful in their own way! :)
Sent by Viola,Jun 16, 2012
I know we don't talk, but I think you are beautiful BlueStar. I, too, am fat, and am often the butt of a lot of jokes. I make fun of myself before someone else can. I am the same way in real life too. I really liked this blog, and my respect for you just went up a ton. < 3
Sent by tinabeena,Jun 16, 2012
Awwwwww so much respect for you after reading this < 333 just shows you're more than they will ever be :) x
Sent by Joee323,Jun 16, 2012
YOUR NOT FAT.
don't listen to them jealous fuckers.
your really pretty.  and your a nice person.  dont let them get to u
Sent by Brad101,Jun 16, 2012
The people who make rude comments about someone's appearance are the ones I wonder about. Would I want to be friends with someone like that on the internet or in real life? My answer would be no I would not.
Sent by Diva1,Jun 16, 2012
YOU'RE NOT F@T
Plussed btw
Sent by tommarkoliver,Jun 16, 2012
Calling someone fat is so overweighted
Sent by FrOntIeRpSyChIaTrIsT,Jun 16, 2012
you are lovely, kez :)
Sent by beautifulbones,Jun 16, 2012
Agreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed. +11
Sent by Vitamin,Jun 16, 2012
I fucking love you BlueStar < 3
Sent by tyboy618,Jun 16, 2012
That's what makes you beautiful! :)
Sent by RJ18,Jun 16, 2012
great blog BlueStar
Sent by seana86,Jun 16, 2012
Practice what you preach then!
Sent by Nelia,Jun 16, 2012
Seen a photo of you. You have a beautiful expression tbh :$
Sent by Manticore,Jun 16, 2012
am not
Sent by Radiohead,Jun 16, 2012
I think you're pretty!!
Sent by Icing,Jun 16, 2012
Read the whole thing and i couldint agree more < 3
Sent by Akora,Jun 16, 2012
It really annoys me how people on Tengaged use ad hominem arguments all the time.  Anyway, congrats on losing weight.
Sent by tofutime,Jun 16, 2012
N0 U R N0T BE@UTIFIL U R FAT!!!!
Sent by Lefting,Jun 16, 2012
You're like the opposite of fat. You're amazing, just the way you are.

P.S. I plussed to 1500 points. That's got to mean something.
Sent by AlphaBravo,Jun 16, 2012
I'm in the same boat as you are.
Except, I get called ugly, not fat, irl a lot.
   
But the comments here don't get to me.
It's the things I am told by my family which does.
   
You people aren't the ones who will see me in an interview and write me off for being ugly.
You people aren't the possible in-laws who could reject me for being ugly.
You people aren't the guys who will never be attracted to an ugly girl.
You people aren't affecting my real life.

So I don't care about the comments on here, they don't matter. XD
BlueStar
Sent by Yoshitomi,Jun 16, 2012
Preach! This is definitely a blog all the assholes on here need to read.
Sent by beccajo16,Jun 16, 2012
i know this blog wasn't just about you, but you're honestly beautiful

like, it may seem as if i'm just saying that because of the contents of this blog, but you're really pretty
Sent by BlakeIsBack,Jun 16, 2012
:)
Sent by ToughNubbs,Jun 16, 2012
FIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIT  XXXXXXX
Sent by plor,Jun 16, 2012
Very nice blog. You are a beautiful person :).
Sent by krisbliss,Jun 16, 2012
Bluestar, this is what I've been trying to say all week in various blogs!
Sent by Nikkayy,Jun 16, 2012
idk you BlueStar but donttt listen to them! you sound like a lovely person and i'm sure your beautiful outside&in!
Sent by jess2129,Jun 16, 2012
I'm sure you're not ugly :)

Don't worry about what others say. They are probably miserable themselves < 3
Sent by Lauren244,Jun 16, 2012
i'm fat too, lol.
Sent by TDATrentsgroup,Jun 16, 2012
I couldn't agree more Bluestar...People that attack on personal issues like that are just insecure or have no actual argument to stand on...
Sent by NexusCain,Jun 16, 2012
Bluestar dont let other people bring you down, I let people do that to me and you know what, the people who say things like that will not have 1 good thing to say about themselves thats why they do it, I havent seen what you look like in real life but I dont need to, I know your a beutiful person inside and probably on the outside so stay strong :) Xx
Sent by Tammy214,Jun 16, 2012
I read it... I agree 100% 
I like you even more after reading this blog! bluestar :*
Sent by gucci911,Jun 16, 2012
Dude kez, you aren't going to change anyones behavior on this site. If you feel like you are being called that then get off the fucking site. What do you expect? People can be dicks.
Sent by Nova,Jun 16, 2012
you're beautiful , kez
Sent by blogs,Jun 16, 2012
Because you eat salad.
Sent by ItsaMeJack,Jun 16, 2012
Oh we knew your bitchass was joining stars
bluestar
Sent by Popeye,Jun 16, 2012
well yes Popeye , I did say I was last week
http://www.tengaged.com/blog/BlueStar/2959837/ok-im-not-actually-joining
Sent by BlueStar,Jun 16, 2012
Sympathy blogs like this are ded cute babe xxx
Sent by Popeye,Jun 16, 2012
Bluestar

I don't think you are that fat tbh and you look just fine and it is the heart that counts
Sent by Kooldude1991,Jun 16, 2012
fat ppl can be pretty sometimes... i only read then title cuz im lazy but ok u are pretty like omg
Sent by SexGoddx,Jun 16, 2012
tl;dr
Sent by Abilitard,Jun 16, 2012

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