*** READ IT ALL PLEASE, THE POINT OF THE BLOG ISN'T TO GET COMPLIMENTS ITS TO RAISE THE ISSUE OF PERSONAL ATTACKS***
I don't understand why people on here feel the need to tell me that, or insult me about it... or anyone else for that matter.
I'm constantly seeing the same old shit used every day.. FAT... UGLY... NO LIFE... blah blah blah..
Do you not think I look in the mirror and judge myself day in and day out? I'll be the first person to say I'm not attractive, if someone calls me beautiful I'd tell them I'm not, I have 0 confidence in my body and my looks..
But I can guarantee you that anything said on here, or anywhere else by mindless people will never ever be as harsh to me as I am to myself, so you really should quit trying to hurt me, or anyone else with your superficial insults.
I've been called fat all my life, it's really just become one of those things that I've learnt to deal with and it doesn't bother me cause I'm my own worst critic. I changed my diet drastically 6 weeks ago and I've lost a stone so far.. I feel so much better and my confidence is growing but I'm gonna carry on until I am happy with how I look... And I can guarantee that when I get there, I'll still get called fat cause it's so easy to use that in an argument isn't it? Rather than actually give a respectable intelligent response to a disagreement!
This isn't just about me, far from it... I've seen countless examples of this used on here and it really disgusts me just how evil some people can be.. Posting other peoples pictures to mock them when generally the people who do this are too damm insecure to even show their own photo!
It's so easy for some trolls on here to criticise others and act like they know so much about other peoples lives and try and use it against them to hurt someones feelings.. It's pathetic. Online or not, the person behind that avatar is a human being, and I don't think anyone on this website is perfect enough to bully another aspect of someone else's life.
Every single person in the collage is beautiful in different ways... the ugly people are the ones who feel the need to rip the thing apart and say who is hot and who isn't.
We all spend a lot of time on here... who are any of us to say that someone else has "no life" or their life isn't as good as our own just cause it's different?
Quit judging people for all the wrong reasons, cause that fat and ugly person with no life could turn out to be your best friend!
I think all of us have something to offer, and by trying to bring each other down, we do nothing but do more harm than good to the community as a whole. Loves you, ya boob!
I agree with what you are saying. It is like when people resort back to using me living in Alabama or saying "who are you" when responding to an argument to me. I am like how idiotic you are that you can't even respond intelligently. And to be honest your face is pretty. So it isn't like you are ugly. And believe me when I say this, compared to people in Alabama, you are nothing close to fat. We are 2nd in the whole United States in obesity. So you are good :)
Don't worry what others say.
Yes, everyone is beautiful in their own way. But there are things that can be changed to make his or herself more healthy. Health is the most important thing to me, so when i see someone overweight or "fat" i don't see ugliness, but unhealthiness.
Like you, Bluestar, are changing your diet and changing your lifestyle in order to become healthy, which i appreciate and am being you in this journey all the way.
But remember, it's not something you should be doing for outer beauty. but the change needs to come from the inside out.
This past week I've been blogging a lot about my uneasiness with users making fun of people's appearances. It's truly a shame seeing so many people sinking to that level! It really needs to stop.
and i really dont care what gayboys on the internet say about me LOL, im not self conscious i really dont care, so try to think of some original insults that will actually put me in my place, thanks!!!
I find it amusing seeing how some people are being completely FAKE. Some of the people who laughed with Jubbzy or encouraged him are here ALSO agreeing with Kez. If you know it's wrong to make fun of someone's weight, why laugh and encourage it when Jubbzy does it? Jubbzy was making fun of people's appearances(their weight in general)
+12
Some people are so shallow.
I had an experience with one person making fun of collage photos the other day and
-They didn't even submit a collage picture
-When I confronted them they backtracked and called it a "joke"
It isn't a joke, people can be hurt by things like that and this stupid bullying needs to stop.
and you make this blog why??? when me and alot of other think highly of you, don't worry about these other folks, they come out everytime there is a collage
ok I just read the very top so disregard my first comment but for real tho, people should worry bout themselves sometimes, stop worrying about others so much. Simple concept...
You are fucking human and I know that PERSONALLY. I DON'T give a fuck what you look like cuz you...as a human being...are AMAZING. You know what...keep being human and tell those other stupid fuckers to go lick skyy's bleeding vagina if they really think they're cool for judging.
if i remember correctly.. u and a few other added me to a group and judged me.. not my looks but other things. so maybe u shouldnt let karma get ya. but ur pretty people are just jelous.
BlueStar. Kez, I've told this to Yoshitomi, I've told this to Nikkayy, and now you'll be the 3rd Tengager of hundreds of girls I'll tell this to. Beauty by me doesn't come from weight OR looks, it comes from who you are, your personality, and your inner you. Being a straight male and saying this... don't know how much it helps, but you ARE beautiful, no matter what you think!
I know we don't talk, but I think you are beautiful BlueStar. I, too, am fat, and am often the butt of a lot of jokes. I make fun of myself before someone else can. I am the same way in real life too. I really liked this blog, and my respect for you just went up a ton. < 3
The people who make rude comments about someone's appearance are the ones I wonder about. Would I want to be friends with someone like that on the internet or in real life? My answer would be no I would not.
I'm in the same boat as you are.
Except, I get called ugly, not fat, irl a lot.
But the comments here don't get to me.
It's the things I am told by my family which does.
You people aren't the ones who will see me in an interview and write me off for being ugly.
You people aren't the possible in-laws who could reject me for being ugly.
You people aren't the guys who will never be attracted to an ugly girl.
You people aren't affecting my real life.
So I don't care about the comments on here, they don't matter. XD BlueStar
Bluestar dont let other people bring you down, I let people do that to me and you know what, the people who say things like that will not have 1 good thing to say about themselves thats why they do it, I havent seen what you look like in real life but I dont need to, I know your a beutiful person inside and probably on the outside so stay strong :) Xx
Dude kez, you aren't going to change anyones behavior on this site. If you feel like you are being called that then get off the fucking site. What do you expect? People can be dicks.