Of when Aquamarine found out I was trans from facebook orgs when I was off the site for years, and him taking it upon himself to spam a blog about it. At the end of the day someone's gender identity should not matter to anyone here. It's really hard to come out as trans to people and to say it could be fake is harmful. I have little to no protections in my state and can still legally be fired and discriminated against in housing just because of my gender identity.