Ok, I've got this guy named j.t., known him for 4 years and we've already been physical. He's AMAZING. . lets just put it that way. He's 26, I'm 32. Well he's always so damn busy sometimes he disappears for four months on end. Well, now that I'm off house arrest he's like up my butt, wanting to talk dirty all that shiznit. Then he tells me he's not a relationship kind of guy, but every time we hang out, we always seem to wind up in the bedroom :S Well he said he wants to go out and have drinks with me and what not, and that sounds awesome, so I'm confused, do I take it for what it is?
Then I have Brandon, he's thirty, he's a General Manager at office depot. We've been talking on text for like a month, we haven't met in real life yet, and he says he's getting feelings for me just by talking to me. That's kind of a put off to me. What would you guys do in my dilema? Need advice bad please!!! :(
I don't pretend to be good at relationships. But I'd go out to drinks with him, then just tell him you like him and you'd like to be in a relationship with him. Tell him theres no inbetween like it has been, your either friends or partners.
But thats just my opinion. =] Hope it all works out!
Well then be friends with him, don't give in to his charm. And when he wants to take it further remind him that he wasn't interested in a relationship, so he doesn't get any.
Also with the Brandon guy, tell him he can't have feelings for you from just texting. If you wanna give him a shot then go for it, but let him know its a fresh start and not to think he gets special treatment for having texted you for a long time.
