Gays are made fun of all of the time for being different. (No offense to gays, I personally think gays are awesome :D) I really do not believe that being gay is a choice. Who would choose to be made fun of?
I think it is just something that you are born with. Who would make the decision to be gay, knowing that they will be mocked, teased, and isolated. Just a thought.
You have to know deep down that he wants to quit. Things just get old and he is really not getting anything more out of Tengaged. However, he has put sooooooooo much time and effort into this website, he must feel like he can't just leave it all behind. I feel like this a little bit already. Well, I was at least. Then, I started playing only when I got time. Not as easy for BioDork. Especially because people expect so much out of him. Anyways, just a random thought.