Yes, they annoy me...when they just up and leave. At least, when I do it, I tell you I'm leaving.
Take tonight for instance: I went inactive because my nana was put in the hospital. And I said I have to go, there's an emergency. I told my alliance about it in the chatzy and i told the people in the main comments. But, did they accept it? NO! They bitched about me not voting! Like, HELLO. I told you i was leaving! I told you to vote me out if you wanted to get the game on! :\