This may not seem like the place but it's late and I have nobody to vent to right now.
My mom went out for 7 hours to pick up her boyfriend from work and then go over a family friend's house for dinner. Around 10 pm, my little brother started getting tired so I asked my mom when she would be home. Tried calling her, nothing. Tried texting her, only the same old text all over again. "We're at the (family friend last name)." No time estimate on when she'd be home.
She shows up with her boyfriend at 11, seven hours after she left. I started asking her why she couldn't answer and calls or text and she gave the same old excuse. "We were down the street." They were nearly 2 miles away so not really down the street but whatever. My mom and I start arguing back and forth in my bedroom and then her snotty ass disgusting pig of a boyfriend yells, "God I can't wait till Nick (his son) comes over here and kicks your FUCKIN *emphasis* ass." Totally threatening towards me. Let's throw in this side note. He went threw a nasty divorce with his ex wife and he literally never sees his kids. NEVER. I met my moms boyfriend in February and he hasn't seen his kids since then and probably for a while before that. Only talks to them via text.
Having that threat thrown toward me, I immediately call my dad. I don't live with him but we see him during the week and we stay at his house every other weekend. He's my rock so I called him. My mom yells while I'm on the phone, saying that what I'm saying is all lies. Wow Mom, thanks for choosing a side. I talk with my dad for a bit and he just tells me to go to sleep.
My mom and I continue arguing about the situation and cunt face boyfriend comes in and yells "I'm calling the cops. I'm calling the cops right now." My mom acts all "oh no sweetie it's fine no no stop!" And he walks away. I'm trying to tell my mom what he said to me and she doesn't believe it. I close the door and tell her to leave, so she does.
I noticed that my LTE signal came on. Odd considering I was home and I'm always connected to wifi at home. I go downstairs and POOF! The wifi router got taken out. And guess who did it?? MR BOYFRIEND! He says it's his router. Sorry dickbag, we had that long before you got here. "Oh I paid for it this month." Fuck you and stop acting like my parent when you don't even see your own kids. I tell my mom I want her to drive me to my grandparents house tomorrow morning and she's just telling me to go to bed. My grandparents are the only people I have really close to me that can help me. She always grills into my mom when she's wrong and I know that I can trust her. After getting about a billion "GO TO BEDS" I said "I cannot wait to see her (my grandma) dig into both of you.
Now here's the finishing touch on all of this. Mr Boyfriend gets up and yells "SERIOUSLY. GO. NOW." I just ran off speechless.
I need your help. I'm going to my grandparents house tomorrow to talk to them. Would his actions be considered something where I could get the town police involved?
Please help me. I don't know what to do.
Comments
You need to get help
Family friends, family members
I've been through something like this so dont hesitate to mail me
You need to get help. Find a school friend, family friend, or a different family member. See if you can stay with them for awhile. Your home life doesn't sound very functioning right now. You need to see if you can stay with your dad or your grandparents while your mother and her new boyfriend figure things out. I'm sorry to hear. I'm sorry I can't personally help you.
Family friends, family members
I've been through something like this so dont hesitate to mail me