Does it make me heartless if I really don't care if people die or not? Because what's the point of being upset if you know it's going to happen. We all know it's going to happen eventually so I don't get why people get upset when it does, it's to be expected. When I die, I don't want anybody to care, just treat it like another day.
The pain is in the hearts of the people who love the person who died. They're the ones who have to adjust to life without them and there is always a sense of emptiness knowing you'll never see them again. It is different if it's a stranger you never heard of.