I know many girls who list their jobs as "full time mommy" mainly because they don't have a job and are the type to run out and say "There's a lot to being a mother, it's a hard job"
Honestly, it makes you look like the type of girl who sleeps with guys to get pregnant just to make money off of child support.
It also makes you look like lazy good for nothings.
I'm not taking anything away from the hardships of parenthood, but My mom worked, My sisters all worked, and my nieces work, they're great mothers, provide a stable life for their children (despite being lower-middle class) So it is possible.
I get that you might think it's cute to list your occupation as "full time mommy" but it really isn't, no respectable guy will ever be attracted to any woman who lists that as her occupation, because assumptions are too easy to take over the initial judgement of character. To a guy being a single mother with that as her job title, makes you look like you're 1 too lazy to try to get a job 2 Probably living off of the system 3 Probably living off child support 4 Probably looking for another sucker to reel in
If you want to find a respectable guy, and not just a fuck boy who will put it in you, find a job, even if it's a shit job, list something or list nothing, don't make yourself look cheap, because the novelty wares off the moment you hit enter
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I agree, they should use the word "mother" or "mom" instead of "mommy".
But I 100% agree you can work and be a parent. But it depends on what works for the family. Most stay at home mothers are basically a cleaner and nanny all wrapped in one, they clean the house each day, do chores, run errands, pick the kids up from school etc etc etc. (doesn't have to be the mother but that's what you said so I'm going with that) If the bread winner of the family makes enough money to support the family and be well off and they like to have someone able to keep up on the house work and keep everything tidy and working then go for it. But I can imagine the type of stay at home mom you're talking about but I feel like that's just their personality and not the ideology of being a full time mommy itself.
But I 100% agree you can work and be a parent. But it depends on what works for the family. Most stay at home mothers are basically a cleaner and nanny all wrapped in one, they clean the house each day, do chores, run errands, pick the kids up from school etc etc etc. (doesn't have to be the mother but that's what you said so I'm going with that) If the bread winner of the family makes enough money to support the family and be well off and they like to have someone able to keep up on the house work and keep everything tidy and working then go for it. But I can imagine the type of stay at home mom you're talking about but I feel like that's just their personality and not the ideology of being a full time mommy itself.