Perhaps instead of ignoring my messages you could have...you know heard my side of the story instead of just listening to your friends? I went off on Lalisa because she was incredibly rude to me and personally attacking me in private AND in public. Honolulu I did not like because she made it a point to say some negative things to me in private so I said negative things to her.
Maybe in the future don't just ignore people and think they're "rude" because your friends say they are.