When you meet someone they are making a variety of judgement's about you. You can, believe it or not, learn to make yourself appear confident. DO NOT confuse this with being "fake". The difference is that doubting yourself, appearing insecure, not believing in yourself is never a healthy alternative to appearing confident. Insecurity has been associated with stress because it has been proven to release cortisol, a stress hormone that makes you not only break out in pimples but cause your heart rate to increase."Fake it till you make it" is definitely applied. Confidence is learned, not attained. I'll repeat that. Confidence is learned, not attained. When you look at the most attractive traits rated by males and females, THE MOST ATTRACTIVE TRAIT IS ALWAYS CONFIDENCE. That is how the less physically attractive guy got the drop dead gorgeous female. That's why confidence is the key to success. This one trait will transform your life guys. Why? Because when you believe in yourself, others will too. People are attracted to people who believe in themselves and have a sense of self worth regardless of their outer appearance.
Back to our original topic, when you first meet someone they are making judgement's about you, we have established that but you might think "yeah but I'm not attractive so I might as well just give up" NO. NO. NO !!!!!! You have to realize that the way you carry yourself, your demeanor, your posture, your physical shape (which you can control) are all variables that can be improved. Think Channing Tatum was attractive before he got physically fit? Think again. He looked like a country hick. We all have things that are within our control that will transform the way we are perceived by the world. Your posture, attitude, diet, your physical health, attitude, ability to have fun, how you make other people feel about themselves, how you treat others, how you talk to people, your positive vibes are all taken into account when you meet someone. When you make someone laugh, make them feel good, send positive vibes, carry yourself with confidence, have great posture and feel and act as if you are worth it. PEOPLE WILL BELIEVE IT TOO, and sooner or later you will begin to become a more positive person at your core. Your confidence will definitely get you results you want. This is all proven with scientific studies. You must first believe in yourself, and sooner or later, other people will begin to believe in you! Set your-self free! Love you Tengaged!
“Man often becomes what he believes himself to be. If I keep on saying to myself that I cannot do a certain thing, it is possible that I may end by really becoming incapable of doing it. On the contrary, if I have the belief that I can do it, I shall surely acquire the capacity to do it even if I may not have it at the beginning.”
― Mahatma Gandhi
When you meet someone studies show that they form their full opinion of you in 90 seconds. Sucks. But it doesn't have to. #healthyliving #change #people #confidence #believe #psychology #Science