Hey kayjay27!! Tengaged is a really fun site, and while there are a lot of mean bitches on this site, *cough zachbbs cough*, people like acyuta and your bf make this site extremely worthwhile. Feel free to pm me and we can talk more.
Welcome - I think you will find as long as you have a good attitude, you will start to meet others with that as well - so don't worry about those "others," who YES do populate this site too ;)