I'm so pissed off right now. My father is such a douche bag.... UGH!!!! ok here is the tea, I need some of you all TOXIC advice. Everytime i ask my dad to borrow some money like 10 or 20 dollars nothing to vrazy just to get me by till i get my money at the start of the month he flips out on me ( note i only asked for money 3 times this year) like he syas " wht do you do with all your money, why dont you save any..) stuff like that. Granted im on a fixed income due to my disablity. and I pay 1/2 the bills and the full property tax every 6 month thats usually when i ask for money btw. So my sister came from New Mexico has been here 2 month and they think they are sly well my dad left his bank statement out and i noticed ha had been withdrawling incrament of 200 or 100 or 300 in the last few month and im like wtf. I ask him about it and he said it was for my sister. ok so he wigs out on me for asking for 20 fucking dollars witch he will get payed back for but has no problem handing my sister hundreds of dollars in month? granted he payed for her RENT and all bills for like 6 months during the pandemic and 1 single dollar has been payed back to him. He bought a new Truck 2 years ago my older brother needed a truck or car for work so my dad sold it to him and he was going to make payments to my dad. he made 8 payments then stopped because he quit his job never made another payment, then moved and asked my dad for 1000 bucks to his deposit and stuff never payed him back a dime. like wtf am i wrong to feel pissed off? like i ask to borrow 10 or 20 dollars he flips out my other siblings ask for hundredds to 1000s of dollars he bends over for them but what really pisses me off is that he tries to HIDE it from me! like why be sneaky about giving your kids mpney after alll it is his money but still! im also his kid who lives with him, helped him pay off his morgage payed for 6 years of back up property taxes he hadnt payed never asked for a dime back for that. i dont know im just rambling now i gues..
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It definitely sounds like you have cause for your anger :S you鈥檙e being treated unfairly than your other siblings..
I've been there before where I've felt there was favoritism showed between the siblings. It definitely doesn't feel good. Maybe you should bring up how you feel to him, and his double standards.
