So I took all night and most of this morning to collect my words and thoughts on a few users that will be address in this. This is only from my personal experience, I cannot speak for anyone else, only myself. I joined this site at 14, and from the ages 15-17 dealt with a lot of suggestive gestures from older users. Its funny because once I turned 18, I wasn’t dealing with half of the stuff I did when I was underage. So here’s my blog, here are people I fully remember that need addressed.
So I’ll start off with one I actually have screenshots of Skype chats from, because it was ironically still saved in one of my very old blogs. #joshie1 this particular user it was a very strange tale of events. From not knowing his actual age to finding out his Skype said 25 but he personally told me he was 20. Weird right? I declined all of his flirts and pics he wanted to send yet still received unwanted nude photos and videos on my Snapchat and repulsive messages on my Skype. Attached to this link are screenshots from a conversation back in 2016. I was 16 at the time. http://prntscr.com/djz77j http://prntscr.com/djz7de
I’m not certain if he’s still an active user, but this was my experience with him, and looking back makes me more and more disgusted, and even the comments on my old blog of people going to defend him just made the situation worse. (Blog link below for comment references) https://tengaged.com/blog/eliserose/7792343/jordanmas10
So now we’ll move onto the next, one that I had a brief encounter with and eventually found out said user was dating another user at the time. Turned to a big ordeal and this one I do not have any photo proof of, nor the rest of the people I will name. Skype doesnt allow me to see messages far back enough, sadly. #johnyb is the next user I’ll discuss. It was short lived but still disgusting enough. Again, only 16 at the time. Pretty sure we met in a frooks and then started talking from there. Conversation would get sexual, I received multiple photos on my Skype and snapchat during that time, videos included. Once the situation came to light in public, all communication ceased from him.
Next is a common one, he’s already banned but we’ll discuss him as well. #wildboy12 we “t-dated” back in 2015-2016(?) I believe, used to whip his dick out on calls with tons of minors, tons of sexual innuendo at all times. I have other friends that saw these instances occur on calls. When calling out the situation, at the time he had threatened to leak photos he had taken from me, also screen recording on Skype without me knowing when I had shown myself to him. We all know he’s had plenty of issues even aside from this one, just all around problematic and I’m thankful we’ve already been able to rid him of this site.
Following him I’ll discuss someone pureessence blogged about. Yes, hi, I’m the girl who gave her confirmation of a situation back in ‘16-‘17. #grrrimabear this strung on for a while, it started as basic flirting, built to more, and then eventually ended. We had traded photos, flirty messages, etc, and scrolling through some of my much older gifts you’ll see messages there that just give confirmation to the situation. I was more worried speaking out about this situation than any of the others, seeing the overwhelming support he was having in stars and the people jumping to his defense. Seeing as he never spoke out about the situation speaks volumes. I received a message from him yesterday asking how to diffuse the situation and how he had “forgotten” about the sexual natures of our relationship back then. No apologies from him, just one of those “how do I rid the situation” type of messages. So I reminded him of what happened back then, and I will remind and let the public know as well.
And there we have it, I’ve tried to get together more stuff but I honestly cannot remember every single person I had such encounters with back then. These were the people that stuck out and will continue to stick out for me in years to come. Mine and every other person who has spoken out, our voices and our stories matter. This site should be a safe place as much as we can make it, and our 17 and under users shouldn’t have to worry about being preyed upon on a site for BigBrother.
I am now 21 years old and won’t forget, and I hope more people come forward and speak out, publicly or privately, we need your voices and I stand by you all.
Thank you to my dearest friends who have supported me through this and throughout the years, especially iybf who endured a lot of the same stuff I did. I appreciate and love you all. ❤️
Read this whole thing.. I'm absolutely disgusted with all these people. What is wrong with that creepy ass man joshie1, I've heard many stories about him being a creep/predator but I didn't know details... I'm so shocked he wasn't banned earlier?! Jesus! Same with the rest of those - one of those used to be my friend, but I can't respect trying to ignore or hide like it didn't happen, or talk out loud, or admit your mistakes, IDK, something at least...
I hope you're in a better state of mind than those times though. Sending much love girl!!
Damn some of those comments on that blog from 2016. Defending Joshie and saying “poor joshie”. So fucked up. To still think those people are on the site and haven’t changed either
I would like to apologize for all the fights we had back in the day. Didn't realize you were a minor. Im really sorry 😞. Also they were Frookies related nothing personal. Stay strong gal!
