So I just spent the last hour looking at snoofle 's blogs. She cracks me up. I just have to say, I am so freaking proud of that girl!!!! She is such a different (happier) person now than she was as an early teen, and I cannot take much of the credit for getting her here. If not for all of her tengaged friends, who I did not know (except for Jacob playboyy ) at all, I don't know that she could have made it. She's not home now; she's at some lesbian convention in Pittsburgh, and I don't know that she will see this for a while. But I'm writing this for all of you who dedicate your lives to tengaged right now. Don't feel bad, don't feel stupid, don't feel like a loser...you may just be saving someone's life.