Pretty much today i showed up for a focus group for a mock trial case. throughout the day we got broken up into multiple different mini groups and at the very end we reconvened for the last time in the main group. some guy, a solid 45 sits in a different seat only in this last room (right next to me) and starts small talk with me all "oh where you from". I indulge and go into my whole backstory how im mexican and british and raised in america. he is all like ooo and ahh as he responds he was from italy.
he keeps talking for a minute or two before really slipping it in there "you should come home with me tonight haha!!" that REALLY mixed me up i was just like "uh-..." before the proctor guy started talking to us and we got dismissed right after, where i promptly was "girls out the room" -dr holly --me and made distance between the italian guy and me.
in the hallway when we were waiting to get paid the other older male gay with purple dyed hair starting chatting with me and this one i will admit i might be judging him but he inquired where i worked since we actually were in the same smaller group where i divulged i was a server. i ALMOST doxxed myself before i just told him the neighborhood again and again another woman from the front desk interrupted the group to get some airpods returned to someone. at which point that ended i was at the front of the line and girls out the room'd x2 to get an elevator ahead of that guy.
so yea... semi strange older men hitting on me unprovoked in THE most random possible public settings is seeming to become a reocurring pattern
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Working in retail I’ve seen old ass men with kids hit on girls who were minors trust me they’re bold
in an even WEIRDER place than my previous weirdest - the thrift store (archived here https://tengaged.com/blog/splozojames50/9568006/i-just-had-weirdest-interaction ).