but seeing her snapstories with another dude just hurts and sends me right back to rock bottom :/
Fuck me for being an emotional person
EDIT: Thanks for all the warm messages and support -- I was honestly not expecting it, I just felt pretty down last night over something and this cheered me up a lot. Thank you to all of you!
EDIT 2: In terms of the advice, I really wanna thank yall for the encouraging words and advice! It's tough -- 100% self inflicted tho, I feel like I would delete her but we've both tried to stay as friends bc we have a lot mutuals and I didn't want it to be awkward for them. It's tough cuz when it happened I just wanted to be a nice person about it and I didn't wanna put my mutuals in a tough spot to "pick a side" or whatever. I knew about the fact that she got with someone else, but I felt like I could slowly accept bc if I cared about her 100% I'd be happy for her -- so socials shouldnt be an issue. Also, I thought that having her on socials would actually help me get over all my feelings for her eventually and it'd be like normalized. It might be dumb, but I didn't want it to be awkward for everyone bc we were all very close, a lot of my friends were good friends with her, I didn't wanna force them to break that, so I wanted to keep this personal situation lowkey idk.
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I’m so sorry dude :/ if you ever need someone to talk to about I’m always here for you, much love king
You gotta remove her man. That first step will save you a lot of heartache. And don't feel bad, there's no time scale for getting over someone. It's not a race. I'm sure she's hurting just as much as you, just dealing with it in other ways. My mails are always open if you ever need to talk it out bro.
I don't think you should blame yourself for being emotional, it's totally normal; NEVERTHELESS, if it hurts to see her snaps, you should try to avoid it, because of it comes that feeling
Delete, unfriend, unfollow.
You CAN NOT continue being tempted. Remind yourself why you aren't together and remember that you are in a better position than when you were with him/her!
until you delete her you will not be able to heal. you gain NOTHING by having her on social media still besides hurting yourself more!
Sent by Florina,Jun 28, 2020
Gotta take the step, it may be hard but then you’ll never have to be faced with it & be able to heal / move on
I’m sorry hun. It is absolutely ok to feel that way especially since she moved onto another relationship so quick after you. Honestly the only thing you can do at this point is block and delete her on everything. It’s very hard, but once you do, trust me you’ll feel soo much better.
it can be really hard to get over someone especially if you love(d) them. hang in there man, heal up! i would 1000% recommend just removing her on everything. it really does wonders because the temptation of checking on what she's doing will go away by doing that!
It's such an awful feeling and it's so, so hard to not pay attention to what they're doing..
But everyone deserves to be happy and you deserve the world, and she clearly wasn't it
There are so many amazing people out there, just waiting for you, Jason. So many potential memories to make with someone special that WILL be able to give you the world. You just have to tell yourself that. It's fucking hard at times but time is precious and so is your happiness, and you can't properly heal and be happy again until you remove her from your life. The longer you leave it the more you trick yourself into believing you're over it and the more time passes by.
Remove her. Heal. And when you least expect it that someone special will come into your life.
Love you <3
I'm so sorry you're hurting dude! Know that you're not alone and there are so many heartbroken people out there. Time will heal for sure, but there's no definitive period for getting over someone. The fact you're hurting now is actually a good sign, as it shows you're emotionally intelligent.
I agree with all the above that recommend deleting her. Idk how Snapchat works, but I know Insta has a mute feature. If SC has something similar, you could always use it so as not to cause a circus or upset. That would be an easier first step to take. If you can't do that, I say just delete her. Out of sight, out of mind is often true and all the while you see her face and see updates on her life you won't be able to move on. Social media makes these situations hard and weird ecause it enables people to be a part of our lives without being physically present. While she's on your SC, she's a part of your life and that's not healthy when she's your ex and you're not over her.
