like im a burden to my boyfriend, he doesn't find time for me anymore, conversation is very dry when we text (its kinda long distance so we don't see each other much). I sometimes feel like I am not "enough" and the convo is just not what it used to be 3 months ago. We used to talk for like 6 hours straight.
Honestly don't know what to do anymore.
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pls speak to him about your feelings and judge your relationship based on how he handles the conversation
MelloJello I did and he says he is "Busy" or finds excuses. And I don't wanna bring it up again because then I just feel like I am being annoying. So thats why idk what to do anymore
Honestly all I can say is that you ARE enough, and sometimes it really is okay to look at someone and say it’s not me it’s YOU. People are so quick to blame themselves because they feel like they did something wrong but honestly sometimes those close to us aren’t as fantastic as we view them or have previously viewed them. If he’s not able to communicate with you and have a conversation regarding your worries and feelings besides him saying he’s been “busy” then you’ve done YOUR part, it’s time for him to do his or else you need to move on, it’s not fair for you to keep up hope for something that someone isn’t putting effort into.
