Found out a week ago. And damn I have so much respect for other people who went through this. It's literally a rollercoaster of emotions, still going through it obviously, but its so hard.
Its literally a feeling of insane sadness to anger to still having love for them, to anger and wanting revenge.. It's a never ending cycle.
Doing so much better after the first week (I found out he cheated on me like a month after he dumped me), but it's still hard as hell. Just trying to find that inncer peace again and I hope I find it as soon as possible.
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BEEN THERE! Give yourself time, it’s a bloody shit thing to go through. You deserve better.
Self-care is important, have a pamper, exercise, read, watch a film, whatever you enjoy. If you work too, that’ll distract you, it did for me.
The best form of self care though is moving on and enjoying yourself. Block all trace of him from socials so you aren’t tempted to keep looking, reach out to your loved ones, but most importantly, ensure they’re not telling you what he’s up to. You don’t need to know and in time you’ll feel so much better.
It's so hard, the betrayal is absolutely crushing. I always find it hard to concentrate after something like this happens (it's surprising the amount of times it's happened to me), but it's always passed, and hopefully it'll pass for you too <3
This is ALWAYS a terrible situation. I've been there. The emotions are hard to handle. Just don't let this be a reflection of you and let yourself keep living your life. Fuck that person 💕💕💕
PrincessTeePee Thank you so much for this and all the advice. Yes I am doing this, going to the gym, trying to be as positive as possible, trying to focus on school and such. The hard thing is, its so hard to find anyone as a gay person, so it hurts 100x more because I am like, will I ever find that "my person" you know? Maybe I am just in this weird mentallity now..
hellocat omg SAME! I have such a hard time concentrating on shool work, its literally impossible for me to get anything done. And even if I do, its bad lol. Thats like my problem now, such a hard time concentrating. If you have any advice when it comes to that, go ahead haha :)
biminibonboulash I am sorry for you too :/ It is a horrible situation, I thought this was the guy I was gonna introduce to my family and everything. Yes I was blaming myself a lot, not anymore though. It is what it is, I am trying my best to heal now and find that inner peace again :)
Self-care is important, have a pamper, exercise, read, watch a film, whatever you enjoy. If you work too, that’ll distract you, it did for me.
The best form of self care though is moving on and enjoying yourself. Block all trace of him from socials so you aren’t tempted to keep looking, reach out to your loved ones, but most importantly, ensure they’re not telling you what he’s up to. You don’t need to know and in time you’ll feel so much better.
Good luck ❤️